Friday, October 31, 2014

31st October

Recovery Day 12
It’s Sunday morning (19th Oct) and once again some challenges in sleeping due to the pain.  I’m thinking maybe those small extra pills the Doctor gave me are doing what they’re supposed to be doing for relieving pain.
An interesting morning I can say.  This is the first time I’ve be a ‘virtual guest’ at a wedding.  My 2nd cousin was getting married yesterday and I was invited but due to the fact I’m in Taiwan of course I couldn’t attend.
When I turned on skype, a message from my uncle saying call me on skype as you can say hello to everyone at the wedding.  A 12-hour time difference met that it was only around 7pm Saturday in London (Canada).  Once we got connected my uncle walked around with his phone and allowing everyone to say hi to me and of course vice versa.  It was so cool to see everything there and of course the bride and groom.  The mother of the groom said to me “thank you for coming”…hahaha
We skyped for maybe 15 minutes or so, but enough time to say hi to my attending relatives at the wedding.
Lee told me afterwards a little bit of bad news and that the breakfast eatery was too busy to deliver breakfast to us.  I gave Peter (taxi) a call and asked if he had time at some point if he could stop at a place to pick up some ‘fan twan’ and deliver to us.  He was here in 10 minutes with fan twan.  He told me that Sunday’s are not very busy for him so I didn’t feel too bad for asking him to do this.  I have to do whatever means possible in order to get food since it’s too difficult for us to go out and buy.
Tonight for dinner we called (my favourite) beef noodle eatery and a drink place for delivery.  Beef noodle soup with some kimchi (Taiwanese & Korean) plus some beef fried rice.  Drinks were pearl milk tea and some type of lemonade. 
One thing that is very different here is that there are no delivery charges whatsoever on the food being delivered.  The price of the food is what you pay.  We tried giving a little extra $ to the delivery girl the first time and she replied by saying no, we cannot accept more money.  So then why in the Canadian culture and probably most other Western Countries, we feel obligated to pay delivery charges?
The end of a good day with the stomach full J
Recovery Day 13
It’s Monday, beginning of the 3rd week since the accident.  Feeling good and slept better last night.  Hopefully the rollercoaster effect of pain is past and this week will give me energy leading as I move forward.
Recovery Days 14 - 15
Both Lee and I are trying to be more self-sustainable as each day goes by.  We hobbled (me on crutches, Lee with a walker) slowly across the street and down the sidewalk a short distance to a beverage shop to get a drink.  Normally this walk would take maybe 2 minutes but it was like 15 minutes by time we arrived.  I can maneuver much better with the crutches outside rather than using the walker.  The walker is good inside the apartment.  The only thing I’m experiencing with the crutches is that they’re not as stable and not very easy using stairs.  Slowly but surely the healing process will succumb my injury.
Also today I went next door to the travel agent and booked various trips for when my sister and brother in law arrive in February.  One cannot be too early for booking.  So far I will take them to Taipei, Kenting and to the Penghu Islands.  They arrive on the 9th February for a couple weeks – one of the weeks being Chinese New Year.
Lee and I ventured out today and took a taxi to Caffe Bird and had lunch and stayed there for a couple hours simply taking in a different view than inside the apartment.  I think my isolation is beginning to pull at me and time to get out..haha  It’s a warm day today more so than the previous few days but was nice to feel the sun warming up the body.
Recovery – 3 weeks out
Three weeks today was the accident and how do I feel and do I notice improvement?  Yes.  With that said, I couldn’t sleep well last night due to shots of pain going through my hip and thigh area.  Not sure why it seems sometimes more intense now than it did at the beginning.
I’ve decided to go back to school next week but only for teaching my two theory classes.  Yes this is against the Doctor’s orders but I’m thinking that I feel good and for the theory classes I can sit down as well and for only 2 hours I’m confident I’ll be alright.
Initially the Doctor said don’t go back to school until after the x-ray (this coming Friday) but once I found out that I must pay the teachers substituting for me from my own pocket, I prefer to go back sooner rather than later.
This was a surprise to me just as much as it is to you. 
It’s Saturday so not sure what we’ll do but probably like most any other day.  Order food and watch TV.  It will be too busy to go anywhere, as with me on crutches/walker and Lee using the same, it’s cumbersome and inconvenient to do anything especially if there are a lot of people around.
Lee’s sister went to a local night market and brought us some of our favourite food for dinner.  (bbq corn on cob, onion pancake, squid balls (like fritters) and favourite drink, pearl milk tea)
Eating well as we’re watching Mission Impossible 3…haha
Sunday 26th October
First thing this morning Nana (Lee’s sister) arrives with breakfast.  What a nice surprise but I was only in my underwear.  Not too worry as she saw me and assisted me in the hospital when I had less on.  She brought us fresh fruit and (fan twan).
Today Lee and I decided to venture out for our second time of shopping.  This time I would leave the walker behind and utilize the new crutches. 
I can now say the crutches are much easier to use than the walker!
Peter first took me to the bank then off we go to Carrefour. (nearby shopping centre)
We didn’t purchase as much as last time due to the fact we didn’t have a shopping cart this time but rather used a basket sitting on Lee’s lap while sitting in the wheelchair.  The basket can only hold so much. (good thing)
We knew that Lee’s sister and their mom was coming by today for a visit so as we left the shopping area Lee called them to say we were on our way home.  Shortly after arriving back to the apartment his sister and mom arrived.
Was good to see them as it was the first time since first arriving home from the hospital 3 weeks ago.  We had some snacks and watch Discovery Channel for a couple hours.
As I was sitting there one of my students texted me asking if I would be home as he wanted to stop by to give me something he purchased in Taipei.  He went there Friday and spent the weekend there.
He dropped in around 2pm handing me a small shopping with different treats inside.  What a thoughtful student and he’s very respectful.  He’s one of the international students studying at NKUHT (from Singapore).  He asked when I would return to school as he said the students miss me…haha  
Tuesday 28th October
I went back to school today for the first time since the accident.  I decided that I should be able to teach my theory classes since there are chairs in the classroom for me to sit down.  Another reason is that I need to pay (from my pocket) any teacher who is replacing me and teaching my courses.  I feel good and going a little stir crazy here at home anyway.
It’s a 2-hour class from 16:30 to 18:30h with a 10 minute break between periods.
Peter (taxi) took me to school and I arrived around 15:00h.  Analeigh was already out near the entrance waiting for me and she organized a wheelchair for me as well in case I needed it.
Prior to my class start time many students came by to see me in the office and brought me food and the smiles and laughter they had was overwhelming.  It felt so rewarding to be back and I think the students were happy to see me as well.
Class went well and we had a review for an upcoming test.  A test they were to have today but because of the circumstances I postponed it until next week.
Peter already new what time to come pick me up so he arrived at the same location where he dropped me off.  I just had to have my latte so we stopped at a nearby 7-11 on the way home.
The other interesting thing today was that another professor (Dean of Research) contacted me as he is organizing the National Bread Competition for next weekend.  He use to be head of the Baking and Pastry department prior to his new role at the university.  He is actively involved in competitions and other events that involve the Baking and Pastry sector.
About a month ago he had already asked me to participate in this 3 day event but now since the accident my role had to be altered slightly. 
I will still be part of the judging jury (6 judges – 2 from France, 2 from Australia, 1 from USA and myself). 
There are 6 competitors – 3 on Friday and 3 on Saturday.  These are professional Bakers/Pastry Chefs and the winner will represent Taiwan at the upcoming Cordon Bleu International Bread Competition held annually in Paris.  A few years ago a Taiwanese Chef one the Championship and now one of the most well-known and successful bakers in Taiwan and located right here in Kaoshiung.  He has even written a book and a movie is or has been made about his journey from a student to his now known position.
This competition is also part of the Kaohsiung Food Show, which is being held at the new Exhibition Centre. (just down the street from where I live)
One of my students will meet me at the entrance of the exhibition and escort me to where I need to go since I will be in a wheelchair.  Should be interesting/exciting and hopefully not too painful for me..haha
29th to 31st October
First of all ‘Happy Halloween’ to those die-hard tricksters and treaters.
Went to school for the second time on Thursday for my other 2 hour theory class.  It went well as usual but somewhat awkward standing/sitting and moving about with crutches.  I have the Japanese student who consistently sleeps during class.  I’ve done as much as I can to alleviate this but nothing seems to be working.  He continues to tell me it’s because I speak too quickly and he doesn’t understand.  Yes this might be part of it but I know that is not the sole answer…haha
The big day of this week was my return and check up with the Doctor for my injury prognosis.  We just returned from the hospital.
Lee now has his cast off but must be careful and slowly put pressure on his foot and continue to do so as the healing progresses with caution.
As for me the prognosis was not so good.  Apparently the screws, which are through my hip and femur bones and moved outward slightly.  The Doctor showed me the xray after the operation and the xray from today and one can see that the screws have shifted.  He said this is due to either putting pressure on my leg or side to side movements.  The fracture is vertical so any sideways motions can/could cause this.  I need to be extra careful (which I am already).  This made me somewhat angry at myself because I have been careful and no pressure whatsoever on my leg and moving slowly.
The Doctor said that if this fracture has not healed in 6 months then a second operation with a bone graft will probably be necessary.  OMG Nooooooooo way do I want this to happen.  I am already as it is 3 months out of commission and it totally sucks.  I cannot afford any negative results from the healing.
As we left the hospital, there was a group of small pre-school children all dressed for Halloween. It look so cute.  There were maybe around 12 kids with 4 or 5 adult chaperones (also dressed up).  Not sure if they were going to an event or leaving an event but it was darn cute.  (see photos)

Later in the day Lee’s sister came by with lunch and a couple of lattes.  That hit the spot for sure.

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